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Support space

If you’re experiencing abuse, or supporting someone who is, you’re not alone.

Whether you are looking for support or trying to help someone you care about, this page offers guidance and information to help you take the next steps.

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Two friends talking in a cafe

Get support

If you’ve experienced abuse, you don’t have to face it alone. Abuse can happen to anyone and support is available. Whether you want to talk to someone, understand your options, or just see what help is out there, you can find the support that feels right for you.

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Man having a chat on a mobile

Give support

If someone shares their experience of abuse with you, it’s normal to feel unsure of what to do. A little guidance can help you feel more prepared – explore some ways to support someone who opens up to you.

You deserve support

You are not alone.

Telling someone about your experience can help you to deal with the abuse and get extra support if you need it. That may include emotional support, practical support, health advice and legal support. You don’t have to go through this on your own.

There’s no pressure on you to do this, and no right or wrong person to tell. You might start with friends or family or someone in your community that you trust.

When you’re ready, and only if you want to, you might choose to talk to a specialist support organisation. You don’t need to report anything, or involve the police, to get help. Whatever type of support you choose, there are people who will listen and believe you.

Want to report it?

You might also choose to report what happened to you in a more formal way, whether at work, university or school, or by going to the police.

Remember, in an emergency call 999. If it’s unsafe to speak, you can then press 55 and you will be transferred to a police call handler, trained to deal with ‘silent calls’, who should be able to identify your location. 

Testimonial

Girl crossing street
Girl crossing street

I went seven years without telling anyone and then I realised it wasn’t my fault, and I needed to get the right support.

*Testimonials are anonymous to protect identities, but all are based on real experiences